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Most of the guys in my family, like my father, didn’t care much…but the women? They kept giving me these dirty looks like I just “came out” or said my political views. “Yes, Please.” I held up my plate and let her put on some grease-soaked garnish, celery sticks, cranberry sauce, and meatless salad on my plate. “Yes, Aunt Jenny… “ My mom nudged me with her flabby bingo wing. Want uh.some celery and peanut butter?” My mother, who was an obese cow at a ripe 500 pounds, gave me “the look” to be more polite. My Aunt blushed softly and lowered the plate of pork chops. Maybe one of those commercials on T.V swayed my opinion. I guess I always loved animals and made the choice when I was young not to eat them anymore.

At least they served salad here…loaded with blue cheese, ranch, cheese, croutons, bacon, chicken…Okay, so it’s not very healthy. I hate that my little sister weighed more than SIX of me. I hate that they eat enough meat in one day to feed an impoverished African nation for a year. My family kept teasing me and calling me a “stringbean” or a “skeleton” to annoy me. I was a normal, average, skinny size for a 20 year old. I was the thinnest girl in my entire family at only 140 pounds. If you were a girl in my family, old or young, you were probably a blimp. The average woman in my family was 400 pounds. My family reunion was the largest around…and I’m not talking about people. Ten Turkeys, 5 roasted pigs, and 20 buckets of fried chicken…minimum. Most of the men ate normally….but the women? Insatiable. I had been a vegan all my life unlike the rest of my family.

I tried to make a conscious effort to not eat any animals. “I don’t eat meat.” I told my morbidly obese Aunt as I folded my arms. And don’t forget you’re a person first.Happy Thanksgiving! Enjoy this story I made to celebrate the day of American obesity and family! Once you have a clear answer then go out and fucking get it girl. So what are those things? Can you accomplish what you want, do what you love and be a feedee too? How will you balance everything so that you end up living the life you want to live pursuing all of your aspirations? Think about these things hard enough and you’ll not only be able to find the answer to whether or not you wanna be a feedee, but you’ll also start to uncover your boundaries in feederism, your limits and the type of person you want in a partner/feeder. It’s important not to forget about those other things that make you who you are. You can’t make your entire life about being one thing or another.

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So don’t assume as such! I’m a full time human-being, not a full time feedee. While you might see feedees online, posting and making content about nothing but eating and gaining weight that isn’t always what’s happening behind the scenes. I think it’s important to do some self reflecting and consciously make your decisions before throwing yourself into something you’re unsure about! I’m sure it’s only made things more muddled to have jumped into feabie, gaining and getting feeders before knowing if that’s what you truly want! So I employ you think first and decide definitively what you want before diving headfirst into feedism again.īut I also think it’s important not to read too much into social media.